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SOME IMPORTANT LESSONS TO REMEMBER!!
Till now, we have covered some important aspects of the story which taught us many lessons.
So let's take a look-
●We sometimes blame our surroundings and people around us by saying that we want to change but some bla bla conditions don't allow me to change.
So let's look at Asiah radiallahu anha who was a pious woman and she adopted Islam (later on) despite of the fact that she was married to the worst man of all times, Firaun.
● It is ok for a man to live with his in-laws in problematic conditions for a shorter or a longer period of time depending on the conditions and there is nothing to feel shy about it but in such cases, he must offer some kind of services to them and do not lay a burden on them just like Moosa ‘alayhis salaam did.
●The father of a girl can give proposal to a man for his daughter and there is nothing wrong in it just like the old man gave the proposal of marriage to Moosa ‘alayhis salaam.
● Women can work outside home if there is a necessity. It's just that the work should be halal and they have to maintain their modesty just like the 2 sisters did.
● Women should try their level best not to mix up with a crowd of men where their bodies touch with them and sadly many women in our society don't see any harm in this.
Especially I want to point out that in Haram, many women who desire to take Bosa mix up with the crowd of men and their bodies touch theirs and instead of gaining reward, they add up their sins.
The 2 sisters gave a perfect example where they stood aside waiting for their chance.
[Abhi tak humne qisse ke kuch ahem hisse pure kare hai aur usme se kayi sabaq seekhe hai, to aaye dekhte hai-
•Hum kayi baar apne aas paas ke mohol ko aur logo ke upar ilzaam lagaake farigh ho jate hai ke fala fala mohol mei rehne ki wajah se mai tabdeel nahi ho pati/pata.
Hume Asiah radiallahu anha ke upar ghaur karna chahye jo ek nek khatoon thi (jinhone aage jake Islam bhi qabool kiya tha) halaanki unke shohar (Firaun) dunya ke sabse badtareen admi kahe jate hai.
• Ek mard ke liye koi sharam ki baat nahi ke kabhi koi majboori aur pareshani ke waqt mei wo apne sasural mei rahe chahe wo kam arsa ho ya zyada lekin soorat ye honi chahye ke wo waha unpar bhoj na bane aur waha pe koi kaam ya khidmaat hazir kare jaise Moosa ‘alayhis salaam ne ki.
• Ek beti ke walid apni beti ke liye khud rishta maang sakte hai aur isme koi sharam ki baat nahi jaisa ke un buzurg aadmi ne Moosa ‘alayhis salaam se apni beti ka rishta maanga.
• Aurat zaroorat aane par ghar se bahar bhi kaam kar sakti hai. Baat sirf itni hai ke wo kaam halal hona chahye aur aurto ko apni zeenat ka khyaal rakhna chahye jaise ke un dono behno ne kara.
•Aurto ko is baat par ghaur farmana chahye ke wo mardo ke hujoom mei mile jule nahi jaha unke jisam unke jismo se takrate hai.
Meri khaas taur par tawajjo Haram ki taraf hai jaha aurte bosa lene ke liye mardo ke hujoom mei ghus jaati hai aur unhe uski koi parva nahi hoti. Aise mei wo sawaab ki jagah gunah kama leti hai. Iski behetreen misaal un dono behno ne di jo alag khade hokar apni baari ka intezar karti thi.]
