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AN IDEAL WIFE!!
Seeing the changes in Muhammad ﷺ did not reduce the love of Khadijah رضي الله عنه nor she ever complained to him.
Khadijah رضي الله عنه would always make sure that Muhammad ﷺ was provided with food and drinks during this time.
SHE USED TO CLIMB up to the MOUNT OF HIRA to give him food and drinks.
Such was her love to him that sometimes she would accompany him for a few days during his seclusion, never saying a word to him to avoid any interruptions.
Generally, A typical wife in such a situation would start complaining, nagging, cursing her life and their marriage, start making phone calls to her friends, parents etc, creating disharmony all around.
Forget about months, sometimes when husbands come late from work, or when they are tired and refuse to make a plan for weekend, or sometimes when they need their private space, we should see how we react.
Khadija رضي الله عنه set a tremendous example for all of us that how an ideal wife should be.
Khadija رضي الله عنه never complained for his long periods of absence, infact she appreciated and respected his emotions and needs.
[Muhammad ﷺ ke andar yu tabdiliya dekhkar Khadija رضي الله عنه ki mohabbat unke liye kabhi kam na hui aur na hi unhone unse kabhi koi shikayat ki.
Khadija رضي الله عنه is baat ka khoob dhyaan rakhti thi ke Muhammad ﷺ ko khaana-peena humesha mayassar rahe.
Wo unko khaana dene ke liye PAHAAD par bhi chadh jaaya karti thi.
Aisi thi unki mohabbat ke kabhi to wo Ghaar mei unke saath kuch din reh leti thi lekin bilkul khamosh rehti taake unki ibadat mei kisi tarah ki koi khalal na padhe.
Amooman dekha jaye, to biwiya aise mauqo par shikayte karne lag jaati hai, taane dene lagti hai, apni zindagi aur shaadi ko kosne lagti hai, apne maa-baap , dost wagera ko phone ghumaane lagti hai, aur ird gird pure mohol mei be-sukooni paida ho jati hai.
Mahino ko chodye, jab kabhi thode din shohar kaam par se der se ghar aane lage, ya jab wo thake ho aur ghoomne ka koi plan mana karde ya kabhi unhe akele rehna ka dil ho to hume dekhna chahye ke hum kya tarze amal ikhtiyar karti hai.
Khadijaرضي الله عنه ek behetreen misaal qayam karti hai ke ek biwi ko kaisa hona chahye.
Khadija رضي الله عنه ne Muhammad ﷺ ki lambi ghair mojoodgiyo ke bawajood kabhi bhi shikayat nahi kari, balke unke jazbaato aur faislo ki humesha izzat karti rahi.]
